Where fire meets the dark.
1:1 Coaching and Fire Circles for men ready to stand in their fire, tell their truth, and live in their light.
THE THREE PILLARS
The work begins at the fire.
Presence
Stay steady in the heat. Learn to breathe through discomfort and stay true to yourself.
Truth
Bring light to what's hidden.
Speak it. Live it.
Purpose
Let your fire become a force for clarity, leadership, and love.
Around fires and in honest conversations, men rediscover their real strength, integrity, and light.
For nearly fifteen years, I have been gathering with men around fires, sharing stories, offering and receiving reflections, sitting in silence, being challenged, and doing the deep work it takes to come home to ourselves. Those nights taught me that real strength is not found in isolation. It is forged in brotherhood, in honesty, and in the courage to face what burns inside us.
I have remained committed to my own growth through consistent individual work and a long-term partnership that continues to refine and teach me. My relationship with my wife and sons are fires – ones that reveal, humble, and call me into deeper love and integrity with myself and those around me.
This path is not abstract. It is lived. I have been tempered by the same heat I now help men step into. I know the shadow. I know the fire. I know what waits on the other side.
At the core of this work is a simple truth. We are meant to live where shadow meets fire — to bring warmth instead of armor, to speak honestly, and to walk in integrity even when it is hard.
ABOUT
Fire. Shadow. Light.
Guiding Beliefs:
🔥 You are not broken, and you are not done.
🔥 Growth happens in honest company.
🔥 Brotherhood is the forge where integrity takes shape.
🔥 Real intimacy requires courage and care.
🔥 Purpose is the flame you tend every day.
Begin where you are. Bring your honesty. I will meet you at the fire.
Coaching
Two ways to begin the work.
Every man's fire burns differently. Some need focused individual time, others thrive in brotherhood, and some want the structure of a small, intimate circle. However you begin, the path is the same: honesty, accountability, and purpose.
1:1 Coaching – The Inner Fire
Private sessions, either by zoom or in-person for men ready to face their shadow and build lives that reflect what's true. We name what matters, clear what is in the way, and create steady practices that keep you anchored in purpose. This is the work of standing in your own fire — and learning to carry the light you find there.
Schedule a Discovery Call >
Groups – Men’s Fire Circles
Men come together around a fire, literal and symbolic, to tell the truth, listen deeply, and hold one another accountable. In circle, the fire burns away what is false and illuminates what is real. There is no performance and no pretending, only presence. This is where men remember who they are — steady, open, and alive. Groups are held on land just outside of Lake Geneva, Wisconsin.
Apply for the next fire circle >
THE WORK
From Shadow to Light.
Our work begins in the honest middle, between who you have been and who you are becoming. It is less about fixing and more about remembering what is steady, sacred, and true. This is not self-improvement. It is self-remembrance. You already carry the flame. We simply clear the smoke.
i.
Presence
Stand in the fire
without running.
ii.
Truth
Let light reach the corners
you have hidden.
iii.
Responsibility
Own your choices and
shape your life.
iv.
Integrity
Keep your word,
especially to yourself.
v.
Purpose
Live what matters,
every day.